The dictionary defines trust as; the reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc.,of a person or thing, confidence.
Wow! Let's break that down...
Wouldn't YOU like to be known as being reliable, having integrity and strength, combined with ability and surety? Those are all excellent, positive character traits that you would be well advised to adopt and incorporate into your daily experience.
We each have our own individual and unique definition of trust. One's trust level in others will be shaped by both their past experiences and their future expectations.
I define trust as the positive expectation that the person I am entrusting will do the right thing (without being told to do it) and not just because I WANT them to, but because in their heart they know it it the RIGHT thing to do.
In this article, I will share some ideas on how you can become more trusted and trustworthy, and it all starts by giving trust.
You've heard before that if you want more love, give more love. If you want more happiness, help others to find happiness. The same approach to trust will help you create and sustain trust in your business and personal relationships.
Here are some more ideas to help you to be more trustworthy, starting today -
1) Be likable. A pleasing personality creates a foundation for building trust. Treat others as you would like to be treated, and do it with sincerity and a smile!
2) Be interested. Displaying genuine interest IN others makes you more interesting TO others. And reciprocal interest is a key ingredient for sustainable trust.
3) Keep your commitments, no matter how small or insignificant they may seem at the time. Be consciously aware of your words and what you commit to doing - AND THEN DO IT!
4) Be honest. When you tell the truth (even when the truth hurts) you position yourself as credible and trustworthy. And if you will practice telling the truth FASTER, others will appreciate your integrity and be more willing to share their feelings and desires with you.
5) Be compassionate and empathetic. When you seek to understand PRIOR to seeking to be understood, you open a channel of communication that allows trust to easily flow back-and-forth.
6) Be fair and consistent. When others understand and realize that you care and that they can count on you for predictable, reliable, positive behavior...everytime, you will be viewed as one to be trusted.
7) Be accountable. Hold yourself to a higher standard than anyone might even expect from you. When you follow through at this level, trust develops naturally and effortlessly.
You can increase the likelihood of positive future outcomes by visualizing and expecting the best from others, and by being your best.
Your personal character is a perpetual work-in-progress. Practice being trustworthy, and when faced with ANY decision...DO THE RIGHT THING!
I'd love to hear ideas on how you've effectively built trust in your relationships, or how you have overcome any trust-related issues! Please use the comment section provided below.
Until next time, be creative!
J. Shoop
Your Visualization CoachTM
J. Shoop, aka Your Visualization Coach is an expert in the field of creative visualization. He is a personal coach and the author of "The Other Secret - The Secret Key to The Life You Want by Creating, Attracting, and Connecting With Your Ultimate Mastermind Group". His mission in life is to help others to find happiness. For more info on his services and to connect with him, send an email to jshoop@jshoop.com.
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