2010 is about to become history.
I was recently thinking back to December of 1999, and all of the drama going on at that time about how the world as-we-know-it was going to come to an end, because the calendar on my computer was going to be confused. Do you remember that? It sure seems pretty insignificant now, doesn't it?
And it sure as heck doesn't seem like that was over ten years ago, but here we are, about to kiss another decade good-bye.
For some, the end of this decade can't come soon enough. (Are YOU in that group?) For others, they'll look fondly back upon memories of new beginnings, new friendships, new habits, and new opportunities.
Like most things, our perception becomes our reality. We can certainly use our memory to remind us of all of the challenges and heartache that was experienced, or we can opt for a different view...one of celebrating victories, regardless of their size, and seeking the lessons in the events and circumstances that occurred.
Which will you choose?
I'd like to offer a suggestion on how you can turn any event or circumstance from this past year into a stepping stone toward your best year yet. It starts with a pen and paper, then two simple questions, and 30 minutes of concentrated, uninterrupted effort.
Question # 1) In 2010, what did I do right? - Too often, we forget to recognize or realize that we have much to be grateful for in our lives. Successes frequently get "swept under the rug", replaced with the busyness of everyday life. Take a moment to reflect on what worked, what you accomplished, the goals you achieved, and the people you met. Spend the next 15 minutes remembering all the things that went right. If you need to, go month-by-month, recalling anything and everything you can that you can put into the "win" category.
Question #2) Knowing what I now know, what would I do differently? - This question encourages you to assess your responsibility in the events of the past year, and to begin figuring out strategies on how to extract the lessons. You might decide to leave some things behind. You might choose to end some relationships. You may choose to replace some bad habits with better habits, Or, you might decide to start moving in a new career direction. Spend another 15 minutes considering answers to this question.
You have before you, the incredible opportunity to make 2011 your best year ever. If you give this exercise your best, you'll find that 2011 can be unmatched in the amounts of success, joy, and happiness that you will experience.
Until next time, be creative!
J. Shoop
www.coachshoop.com
J. Shoop, is a LifeSuccess Consultant with Bob Proctor's organization, and the author of "The Other Secret". His mission in life is to inspire, educate, and help others to become consciously aware of their unlimited potential for greatness. For more info on his services and to connect with him, send an email to jshoop@jshoop.com .
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